"You're living this very bare, stripped down life, and you're with your thoughts, and you're hearing about terrible things and it's really scary," she says,…'why do I live a thousand miles away from my parents? Why have I chosen to work so hard that actually I'm not sure I really like my job; but I know I really love my kids, and I don't really think I want to work this way anymore.'" https://www.npr.org/sections/money/2023/01/31/1152162432/how-the-pandemic-changed-the-rules-of-personal-finance